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Social Distancing – Day 19

UK Cases: 38, 168 – Recovered: 135 – Death Toll: 3, 605

Worldwide Cases: 1, 039, 922 – Recovered: 220, 105 – Death Toll: 55, 170

Day 19 was good as usual. I started a new new morning routine with meditation and the ‘I remember…’ exercise before I start writing or studying. That’s good to help me focus and get the pen going. But most of the day yesterday I wasted trying to customise my new creative writing blog and failing miserably. I was about to quit, but I decided to try again after the weekend, just one more time.

Tesco Trip

So, I offered to collect a friend’s shopping from Tesco, so they won’t need to go out of the house. But, me being me, I got the dates mixed up and thought it was next Friday, instead of this Friday. Last night when I came out of the shower, I had a missed call from him, but thought he was just keeping in touch. However, after dinner, he called again and asked when were we going to drop the shopping. Learning that I got the wrong day, we run to Tesco as fast as we could – luckily it’s only 5 minutes from our house – but their slot was between 4 pm and 6 pm and this is 9 pm and I’m literally praying that Tesco still has their shopping there ready to be collected. Long story short, everyone from the security guard at the door, to the girl at the customer service desk, the girl at the door, the store manager, the guy at the click and collect door; everyone was so helpful to ensure I got the shopping last night. I was so impressed and these people don’t get enough credit for what their doing right now. I take my hat off to them everyday! So lovely John and Jen got their shopping in last night after all, we ended up getting a few bits for us as well and got back home on time for dessert and Masterchef. Like my mother used to say, ‘Never a dull moment!’

Bird Bath

Our birdbath in our garden has seen a lot of action lately, but this was the first time, I we saw pigeons in there:


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Social Distancing – Day 18

UK Cases: 33, 718 – Recovered: 135 – Death Toll: 2, 921

Worldwide Cases: 1, 018, 920 – Recovered: 213, 525 – Death Toll: 53, 292

So today, I decided to include the number of recovered cases and the total numbers worldwide in my diary entries. I’ve not included the recovered cases in the UK before because since I started tracking this, they have not changed, and so I didn’t want to focus on those. Last night, I was thinking that since this is a world crisis, it makes sense to include the the world’s numbers; and also because the total of people who have recovered worldwide is a lot higher than the death toll; so I thought it would bring a more positive note to these posts – around four times more people have recovered than  those who have died. Hopefully, we can start seeing the number of recoveries in the UK starting to increase soon. On the other hand, the lower number of recoveries might also be due to lack of testing; a lot more people might have been infected and recovered than we know because they have not been tested. Apparently, a lot more testing will be done by the end of the month, including all the NHS staff. We are still alarmingly behind with the number of tests being currently carried out:

Coronavirus: Health experts ‘frustrated’ by low UK virus testing

My First Rejection

This didn’t happen yesterday, it was the day before, but with the state I was in after my shopping trip, it only sunk in yesterday. I submitted three poems for this year’s edition of The Bolton Review and was rejected. I have only submitted work twice. The first time, I submitted two poems and one script and got one poem accepted, although I thought the other poem and the script were better. The second time, I submitted three poems and got two accepted, which I was chuffed about. I also previously submitted to the New Writing Showcase I got one poem accepted. So this time, it was my first rejection. I won’t let it defeat me, they say ‘you’re not a writer until you have a drawer full of rejection’. At least, it means that you are putting yourself out there. Now I can can I am a writer. What this did to me was made me decide to take writing more serious and start submitting more stuff to more publications. I don’t write more because a lot of the time, I think I’m not good enough and what’s the point; and the reason I don’t submit more is because I’m scared of the rejection, as if it is a confirmation that I am not good enough. Which is truth isn’t, people have different tastes, publications have a certain direction they take sometimes. I might submit something that isn’t right for a certain publication, but might be right for another, and I won’t know it until I start submitting.

I’m glad I did that class with Dani Shapiro on Skillshare, it gave me good ideas for writing prompts and made me more motivated to start writing routinely. My next step will be to look up publications and competitions to start entering. My project for next week is to print out all my writings and start organising them in a folder to start editing them all before looking to enter competitions and submit to publications.

You can see my poems in last year’s edition of The Bolton Review below:

Hungry Birds and I Carried a Watermelon


Games Night

Last night we had dinner at the table as a family and played Monopoly afterwards, I lost but it was great fun.

Monopoly night

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Social Distancing – Day 17

UK Cases: 29, 474 – Death Toll: 2, 352

Day 17 was the worst day so far. In the morning, I was in agony with wrist pain and had to take some paracetamol, which I only do as a last resort. I was feeling tired and under the weather as well, so I decided to take the tablets before it got worse, and they helped.

Board Games

My first action of the day was to place an online order for Monopoly and Uno. At the moment, we only have one board game at home – 8 out of 10 Cats – and two quizzes, so I thought I’d get some new ones before boredom sets in. I ordered them from Argos to collect in store later. I also ordered some compost to start going in the garden next week when the weather promises to be kinder for outdoor activities. And while I was in the shopping mood I also ordered Romina’s birthday present. Her birthday is only on the 15th, but it’s bad enough that we’ll be in without the chance to celebrate with friends and family, so I decided to get it sooner than later.

Reality Check

So, around 4 pm, I received a message that my order was ready to collect and Phil and I went to collect it. Because our local Argos is inside our local Sainsbury’s, we decided to do some food shopping while we were out, saving him from going out again. It was the first time I was out in shops for two and a half weeks and I would like to say it felt good. But it didn’t. We timed it well as there wasn’t a queue and we went straight in; there was a long queue outside when we finished. While going around the supermarket aisles, I felt so inadequate, like I didn’t know what I was doing and I shouldn’t be there. Almost like a criminal. I felt guilty just for browsing around, and if I picked up an item and put it back, I expected the police to be on me and knock me down on the floor to handcuff me. This is a kind of anxiety I’ve not experienced for years, not since before I started therapy for depression and anxiety. It was so strange. Plus, it was the fact that the shelves were almost empty, some areas were completely stripped; not one tin of beans on site, no long life milk, hardly any cleaning stuff, the freezers were almost empty. A lot of the things we usually buy weren’t available. There weren’t many customers inside and we were all mindful of social distancing, but there would be someone who would just violate your safe space without a second thought here and there.

This experience was my first face to face encounter with reality, with what we are living at the moment. I was still shaken when I got home. I felt like I’d committed a crime and got away with it, but wasn’t yet out of the woods. I am so privileged to have a nice home to stay in protected, in an area where we can go for nice walks, a lovely family to spend my time with, a dog to make me feel like a queen and a lot of activities to keep me sane and entertained; it’s easy to forget what is really going on in the world. I am so grateful!

This is all for today and I’d love to hear back from someone who reads this, let me know if you have experienced anything like this.

Stay safe at home!

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Social Distancing – Day 16

UK Cases: 25, 150 – Death Toll: 1, 789

My children told me off for writing down the numbers every day. They think it’s depressing and are concerned that it will depress me. It doesn’t depress me, I like to know; I think it gives me a sense of control, I don’t know why. But, last night my daughter said she got a shock when she learned that we are on 25 thousand already. So I think it is better to see the gradual growth every day, at least we know where we are. I’m not following the news as much now as I was last week, though. That I find depressing.

Unsplash Benjamin Franklin quote

Image credit: Mona Eendra

Course Work

Finally, I returned to my course work after a few days. I’m writing my professional practice reflective posts, there are three; I finished the first one last week, yesterday I started the second one, which I hope to finish today. I wrote down the points I want to discuss, just need to add theory to back up my points and for reference. These first two are only 500 words each, the third one is 1500, that one is going to take a little more time, but I want to finish them all before the end of the week. I should have done this last year, to be honest, but I really struggled with time and with the course workload. I had plans to to them over the summer holidays, but then I moved house in August and was too busy with it. Sometimes, I think the time is just an excuse; we always find time when we have a deadline or when an emergency appears, so why not manage it better when we can? It’s a question I keep asking myself over and over. Funny thing, time!


On this day 16, I did a bit of writing. I started working on a new poem in the 52 poems a week challenge. This week, it’s an invitation. I’m not feeling it yet, it might not turn into anything, but I put down some ideas. Will continue working on it throughout the week and I hope something starts making sense; if not, it’s just the exercise for exercise’s sake.

I also started a writing class on Skillshare, I got an email offering a trial with two free months and I took it. It’s only a one hour class, but I thought I’d check it out. I’ve only been in the introduction, but will complete it today. Maybe because I didn’t feel too inspired with this week’s poem, I wanted to try something new.

I managed to activate my two new sites, but I still need to chose the design, I decided to do a little bit each day so I can also do other things.

Day 16 – conclusion

I also did some cleaning and laundry yesterday. Went for our usual walk, just over 35 minutes, plus I did my 20 minutes home workout. I cooked dinner last night, Phil has been doing more cooking than I lately, so I thought I’d give him a break. He was having his hair cut while I cooked, Lucas did Romina’s and Phil’s hair yesterday and he did a really good job, he should be proud. I’ll have him do mine soon.

I had two video calls yesterday, one from Leonardo in the morning and one from my sisters in the evening. It was lovely seeing them all, specially the children. It was a good day. The call in the evening got me thinking. How long is this going to last? The emotions are a bit mixed at the moment. One moment we’re all on the phone video chatting like it’s Christmas, because that’s when we normally would video call. Next minute it hits us that it’s not Christmas. I’m so determined to make the most of this, but it’s very surreal.

Stay safe, stay inside!

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Social Distancing – Day 15

UK Cases: 22, 141 – Death Toll: 1, 408

Yesterday, was marked with a higher number of cases increase, but lower deaths. It’s always positive to see less deaths than the previous day, even when the cases increase. The higher number of cases, I think, is due to more testing, which is a good thing as the more people are tested, the more realistic the situation is. It gives us some hope to see the death toll not going up as much as the day before, ‘is this the beginning of a trend?’, we can only hope.

My first two weeks balance

It’s been two weeks since I have been social distancing and to be honest I’m quite surprised at how well I’m dealing with it since the first three days I felt like I was in a limbo. The first day, I can only compare with the day when I got the news of my father’s death. I was still in bed when my son came into my bedroom and gave me the news; my sister had been trying to ring me, but I had my phone on silence. It was the 4th of January and we were still on Christmas holidays, I had a lot planned for the day as I was working on as assignment and catching up with course work. But although there was nothing I could do, apart from booking the flights to go to Portugal and email everyone to book time off, I just spent the day staring at the TV, on my pyjamas in a complete limbo. Why could I not just do what I had planned? Specially as this shouldn’t have come as a surprise since my father had been in the hospital for over a month and his condition had deteriorated dramatically in the previous two days. We were expecting the news and they should have come as a relief, both for his suffering and for our worries and sense of impotence. Still, I was numb and in shock for at least three days. And this is exactly how I felt for the first three days of my self isolation. But then I had an epiphany, now I have the time to do what I want and like doing as well as what I need doing.


For once in my life, I had a head start on something as I self-isolated before the schools closed and before the PM recommended social distancing and before the lock down was declared. Everyday since this all started I feel deeply grateful that I am able to do it without the stress of thinking how my bills are going to be paid. No one in my household is facing redundancy and the loss of income is minimal. My husband can work from home and I have many interests to keep me busy and my brain occupied. How long I will maintain my sanity despite all this, God knows. For now, I feel like I’m making the most of it. Yesterday, I had a phone counseling session, which was a surprise as I had assumed that it had been cancelled for now with the university being closed. It should have been a video session, but I didn’t see the email with the log in details on time to activate my session, so we did it over the phone. Although I feel that I’m doing well at the moment, it was good to have some reassurance. My next session will be on the 20th of April, after the Easter holidays. I might be needing it more by then…

I have put on some weight since last week, only 300 grams, I’m not surprised because of all the cakes and sandwiches we were eating at the beginning of the week after Romina brought them home when Costa closed. So 300 grams isn’t too bad, but as a result of that, instead of my usual 10 minutes workout, I am now doing a 20 minutes workout at home, hopefully it will help shed the extra weight. And we’re eating better now, as well.

Yesterday, I also finished the Mental wellbeing in children and young people course that I have been doing online. I had been doing one module a day, but yesterday I decided to do the last two modules to finish the course. I will do Overcoming loneliness next.

I also bought two new domains to start two new blogs, one for creative writing and the other one for English studies. I just hope that I can this time get the sites up and running without much stress. Will keep you posted.

Apart from that, I did two loads of laundry, dried it and folded it, went for my usual walk, made a phone call and watched TV, I didn’t do my crochet yesterday as I was folding the laundry instead.

So, this is all for today. Don’t forget to stay at home and stay safe!

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Social Distancing – Day 14

UK Cases: 19, 522 – Death Toll: 1, 228

How are you all keeping up? So, I decided it’s better to do these diary entries the following day, so I can give you a full overview of the day. Yesterday, I posted Saturday’s entry, which I started writing on Saturday, but got sidetracked by a friend’s phone call. So then I did a little editing and posted it in the morning. So, that’s what I will be doing from now on.

Sunday Routine

Walk 29 March 20

Because it was Sunday, I thought I’d have a different routine. The clocks went forward as well this weekend, so we stayed in bed until 11 am, which was actually 10 am with the old time. I never liked the time changes and there have been a few times when it messed with my schedules. Funnily enough, it never made me late, always early. Years ago, I went to Germany on the weekend it changes in the winter, and we were always early for everything thinking that the Germans were late, which really messed with our minds because this was a work related trip and working with a German company we knew how strict they were with time. For the whole weekend we were there, we did not manage to get our watches right once. Of course, this was a time before mobile phones and computers or electronic devices of some kind or other, started doing it for us. Yes, there was a time when we had to manually change the time on our watches. Crazy, isn’t it?

Back to my day, Phil brought us breakfast in bed and I read a little bit before getting up. Then we went for a longer walk, still in the area, but we went on a different route round Lostock and back. It was one hour walk and I was tired towards the end, but not out of breath. A few months ago, I would have struggled to complete this walk. So that’s a positive change and I am really pleased. When we came home from the walk, I decided to change into lounge clothes because it was Sunday and I normally would be in pyjamas all day, if I didn’t go out, so I thought it would be good to keep that normality for comfort.

New Social Dance

There were a few families out, a few couples and some people on their own. It was good to see how everyone is respecting social distancing around here; people cross over to the other side of the road or step aside, there was even a place where there were people walking in the middle of the road because there were families on either side, which worked because there were hardly any cars. I also noticed that most people we cross paths with smile and say ‘hello’. It’s like there’s this dance that everyone had to learn how to dance and which connects strangers by an invisible link, because we’re all in this together. It is a special time we’re living and not all is bad stuff. I really hope that when it’s all over, we still remember what really counts and still appreciate the little things we had and that kept us going. These walks are a part of my day that I’m really looking forward to and I hope I will never be ‘too busy’ or ‘too tired’ in the future to go for a walk.

Afternoon of Games

Games 29 March 20

After lunch, we all sat down at the table and played some game quizzes, the four of us. We made popcorn and we had a good time together, it was fun and we had a some laughs. We all enjoyed it and we’ll do it again. It felt good to be doing something different. So many times I thought we should play more board games as a family to break the routine and connect in a different way. Usually, we spend too much time on our phones, even when we are together. We hardly interact with each other. We play games at Christmas or New Year when the family gets together, but I always thought we should do it more often. Now that we are all stuck in the house, we have time for it and I’m committed to make it happen. Hopefully, we’ll create an habit that we will continue afterwards.

After the games, Phil and I watched a film, Blade Runner 2049, not the best, but I was doing my crochet blanket while watching it, so I didn’t mind much. And this is all for today, please comment and let me know how you’re doing!

Stay home and stay safe!

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Social Distancing – Day 13

Cases: 17, 089 – Death toll: 1, 019

So today, I decided to add the total figures at the top of my posts. I thought it might be interesting when I look back at this posts in the future to see if there is a relation between the numbers and my mood or what is going on in my life. These figures have worried me a little to be honest; it’s a big increased in the last 24 hours, but I shouldn’t be surprised, I suppose. One minute we’re all at home, doing what we like because now we have the time, it almost feels like we’re on holidays, or snowed in or something; but then we get these numbers and reality hits us – we’re living in the heart of a worldwide pandemic.

It just makes me so angry about the people that are defying the lock down rules. Why is it so hard to understand that the sooner we stay at home, the sooner we get through this and can go back to some sort of normality or at least start rebuilding our lives? I confess that there are moments when I feel frustrated with some people’s attitudes and all the negativity going on at the moment. Things I’ve seen on the news like for example, a group of youths attacking a postman after him telling them off for not respecting the lock down. There have been supermarkets’ delivery vans vandalised, some NHS staff have found their cars vandalised after their shifts, food banks being ransacked. What purpose does it all serve? These are times when communities should come together and support each other, but not everyone gets it.

Thankfully, it’s not all doom and gloom and there has been a lot of positivity out there. When the government called for volunteers to help with the vulnerable people who needed to self-isolate, they were hoping to recruit 250, 000. However, in less than 24 hours, more than 500, 000 people had signed up. This are the type of news that make me believe in the human race. Across the country people have come through with act of generosity and kindness like the couple who runs a corner shop in Scotland distributing care packages to the elderly containing antibacterial gel, wipes and face masks. Businesses like Home Bargains taking the time to reassure their staff that not only their jobs are safe, but also that they have created a fund to support anyone in hardship due to the corona virus. God bless you all who have come through better, nicer and kinder.

One Poem a Week

At the beginning of January this year, I started a one poem a week challenge inspired by Jo Bell’s 52, I use the prompts in the book, but then look at other poems/writings too for inspiration. I did really well for three weeks, but then went to Portugal for a week and stopped, I’m not proud to admit. So today I decided to return to this challenge and rewrote the poem for week 3. It’s about the body, what I had written before, I think I will use to edit an older poem I wrote a while ago. I have been reading something about body image and it inspired me to go in a different direction, so today I wrote a totally different poem. On Monday, I will start week four.

Stay at home, stay safe and save lives!




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Social Distancing – My Diary

I hope you’re all doing great during these hard times. I’ve been debating the idea of starting a social distancing diary. At first glance, there might not be much point, as every day tends to be much the same as the day before; but on the other hand, it might be interesting to note any self-reflection tendencies or changes in mood and family dynamics, for example. So, I decided to go for it.

Today is day 12 for me. At the moment we are all still talking to each other in our house. My husband has been working from home for a week now and my children have been at home since the beginning of this week. We’ve been quite good at staying out of each others’ ways, until this morning when there was a queue for the shower, only because Phil and I stayed in bed until a little later. But, we survived the clash without any casualties, I’m happy to report.

Books I’ve been reading

So far I finished the book I was reading, The Palace of Curiosities, by Rosie Garland and started Joyful, by Ingrid Fetell Lee. Or rather, I restarted Joyful, as I was reading it before my holidays, but interrupted it to read other things. The Palace of Curiosities is a very interesting love story, narrated alternately by the two main characters, Eve and Abel. I really got into it, it’s different from anything I’ve read before, Rosie said in an interview that she wanted to give a voice to these weird characters that we see in shows and circus, Eve is covered in fur and Abel is immortal. What I love about the story is that it is a lesson not only of inclusion and diversity but also of self love and self-acceptance. Really a good read. Joyful, is a different genre, more on the life style category. It’s about how to create a space and atmosphere conducive to happiness by using ordinary things. It’s very interesting to see the effect of colour and textures for example, can have in whole communities, amazing. I’m really trying to apply it to my life, I always loved colour and now I now why, it does have an uplifting effect in our lives.


I am still motivated enough to exercise every morning for 10 minutes, first thing when I get up. I follow the exercise videos on YouTube, by Lucy Wyndham-Read. I’ve been doing a 10 Minutes Cardio Workout, but this morning I started 10 Minutes Inch Loss Workout as I felt like a change. I follow this with a stretch and later in the morning, normally before lunch, Phil and I go for a walk with the dog. We’ve been making these walks longer each day, firstly because we’ve had cake this week as a result of Romina’s spoils from Costa, but then because we just feel like it. The weather has been really nice for walks and we are fortunate enough to live in a quiet area where where we have fields for walks and rarely see other people. But when we cross with other people in the way, everyone seems to be mindful of social distancing, which is good to see when we see in the news how some people are being so irresponsible. Anyway, this morning we went for a long walk which including a little bit of a hill and I was pleasantly surprised to see that I never got out of breath. I’m much fitter than I was a month ago and the best thing is that I really look forward to my morning exercise routine and to these morning walks.

Morning Walk 27.3.20

Other Activities

This morning, I started an online course for my CDP, Mental Wellbeing in Children & Young People, on EduCare, this course has four modules, I completed module one today and will do some more tomorrow. There are other courses I want to do, but started with this one because it’s something I care about and always wanted to do. I was give a free package of 38 online courses at university a few weeks ago and now I will have time to do them all, or at least the ones I find relevant.

The last two days, I spend too much time trying to start another blog. I decided to start a Creative Writing blog, but it has proved a lot harder than I thought, much harder than when I started this one – things must have changed. Today I decided to take a break from that frustrating quest, but I will go back to it tomorrow. I’ve been watching YouTube tutorials, which they make it seem too easy, but when I do it, some of the features don’t work. I was getting quite frustrated yesterday, so I thought I better give it a break before losing my mind and go back to it in later; sometimes it’s just the best thing to do.

In the evening, I watch a bit of TV with Phil and I’ve been working on a blanket in crochet. I think I will donate this one to a local homeless charity, the same one I have donated some sleeping bags and blankets before. It’s a nice colourful blanket and I think it might brighten someone’s spirits while keeping them comfortable and warm. Depending on how long we’ll stay social distancing, I might have time to make more.

So, this is all I have for today. Tomorrow, I will come back with my day 13 entry.



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Social Distancing – My Experience

Last night, the Prime Minister announced very strict rules on the nation’s lock down. According to The Guardian, it was one of the most watched TV moments in history, everyone was glued to the TV. It felt strange, we were all there in front of the TV and I was very nervous, it was almost like we were waiting to hear our life sentences; I don’t remember another time when I had that feeling.  I remember the uneasy feeling every time I spoke with the doctors when my mother was in hospital in intensive care, but this is a different feeling. I think it’s because this concerns the whole world, not just me or my family. It’s that feeling that we’re all in this together, I suppose.

We must stay at home. We can only go out to:

  • buy necessities like food and medicine and we should do it as less often as possible
  • go to and from work, but only when work cannot be done from home
  • do one form of exercise, e.g. walk, run, cycle
  • go for essential medical care or to care for someone vulnerable

We must not meet our friends nor anyone that does not live in our house and we must not visit each other in each other’s houses. Any social gatherings of more than 2 people are banned unless we live in the same house. All shops that don’t sell food or medicine are closed. To be honest, I knew this was coming from the moment Costa announced closure of their stores yesterday morning. Never before in history, measures like this have been taken.

I have to say that nothing is changing for me, I’ve been doing this since Monday last week. But unfortunately, not everyone understood the rules of social distancing and that’s why the lock down has to be enforced. Some people don’t understand that the sooner you stick to the rules of social distancing, the sooner this will be over. I have to admit that this sounds good to me. Staying at home, reading and writing, calling friends and have all the time I want to do what I want. I’ve wanted this for a long time. Not the pandemic bit, just the social isolation bit – not offence to any of my relations.

So far, a big chunk of my time has been dedicated to self-care. I am still establishing a routine, but I have exercised at home most days and have gone for a walk outside every day. I have been eating pretty healthily and have been drinking plenty of water, I’ve lost 800 grams since I’ve been social isolating – pretty amazing, I would say. I have also been moisturizing every time after the shower, which I don’t normally do because of time, but now, since time is not an issue, I make a point of doing. I also get dress every morning in going out clothes and change to lounging clothes in the evening. I think it gives a structure to the day and makes me feel more connected to the normality of life.

Last week, I made a list of things I want to do during this time. That keeps me focused. I have been doing a lot of journal writing for self reflection, but I am also working on a new poem right now. It’s a poem I started a while ago, but yesterday I went back to editing it and today I will give it another look. I’ve done a few online badges on the university website, but I’m looking for some online courses that I can do to keep my brain in gear and add to my skills. I’ve been speaking on the phone to friends every day to check up on each other and stay connected.

My biggest challenge is to stay away from social media and news updates. I confess I am quite obsessed with news updates, maybe because these are unprecedented times and, sometimes it does feel unreal, like this is not really happening. It’s like, I need to check often what it going on, in case someone comes up and say something like, ‘a cure has been found’ or even, ‘You’ve been fooled!’  Sadly, neither has happened yet and I doubt that it will. So, I must stop obsessing about the news and do something more productive or satisfying with my time. But, all in all I am happy with how I have been using my time – most of the time. Let me know what you’ve been doing with your social distance time, I’d love to hear other people’s experiences.

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What Does Being a Mum Mean to Me

I became a mother at the age of 23 and since then my life has been the most amazing adventure you can imagine. I never knew how much love capacity I had until I became a mother. But being a mother is not just about the sacrifices you make and how much you love; being a mother to me, is mostly about how much you get back. Not a day goes by that I’m not in awe of the human beings my children turned out to be and not a day goes by that I don’t burst with pride.

My children kept me going when I thought my life was over and felt like I couldn’t go on any longer. They were the reason I got up every morning when I didn’t have the energy. They were the reason I fought clinical depression and had the courage to seek help and get better. My children made me a better person and made me seek my happiness.

They might say that they are proud of me and that they are grateful for everything I do for them, but the truth is, if it wasn’t for them I wouldn’t be the person they love and feel inspired by.

I’ll just leave you with a poem I wrote about my children. Basically, this is all true, every line is something one of my children said to me at one time or another. I’m sure many mothers out there – and sons and daughters too – will identify with some of these lines. I hope you enjoy reading it.

Wedding with kids

Things My Children Say To Me 

That there is nothing to eat in the house.

That I look beautiful.

That I shouldn’t dance.

That I don’t need to diet.

That I have no fashion sense.

That I am funny.

That they love me.

That I am always late.

That I should go out more.

That I never listen.

That they miss me.

That I need to take cooking lessons.

That I make the best spaghetti Bolognese.

That I don’t understand.

That my accent is funny.

That I am a terrible driver.

That I am the best mother in the entire world.